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Why Do They Sing?

As I sit on my back stoop, the day that was thick and heavy with humidity is transforming all around me. To the northwest there’s the rapid flickering of what I grew up hearing called “heat lightning.” The air is tangibly cooler from occasional puffs of breeze high in the treetops. Thunder rumbles in the distance and the dogs are nervous.

The light show high above the solid ceiling of the clouds is working its way steadily to the south southeast maintaining its apparently regular yet certainly random rhythmic dance. The thunder sounds like bowling balls pushed down the alley by a very young child – meandering its way along the hard wood before reluctantly thumping into the gutter just short of finding the pins. Though the light show is now overhead, the children’s bowling birthday party stays far away yet nary a pin has fallen.

Now the promise of more relief as there’s a light but steady and gentle push of air from west to east down here close to the ground while the treetops are quiet. The cricket’s chatter and sing.  Is it because they anticipate the storm or because they are oblivious to it?

Writer’s Block

City block, block of cheese, concrete block, blockhead, roadblock, H & R Block, blockhouse, Lego block, block of ice, toy block


Brain burp
Lame brain
Occipital eructation
Crippled cognition
Knowledge neutered

(originally posted at the old blogitch 12/31/08)

The Soldier and the Ambulance Driver

Last week, I had the honor of conducting the funeral for another member of The Greatest Generation. Born 96 years ago, he breathed his last breath in the peace and comfort of a local hospice house. A preschool child on Armistice Day and a teenager when the market crashed in ’29, he lived his young adulthood though the years of the Great Depression and was well on his way toward his 30th birthday when the bombs fell on Pearl Harbor in 1941. He served during World War II as a radio operator in the 1st Army, 5th Corps, 56th Signal Battalion.

The battalion initially landed in Scotland on 12 July 1942 and remained there until 14 July 1942. From 15 July until 20 November 1944, the unit conducted training in Northern Ireland. The 56th Signal Battalion arrived in England on 24 November 1942 and remained there for over eighteen months until 5 June 1944. While there, the battalion underwent additional training with the British Army Royal-School-of-Signals. This training assisted the battalion in establishing solid communications between American and British forces as they prepare to battle their way across Europe. On D-Day, 6 June 1944, assigned to Fifth U.S. Corps, the battalion participated in initial amphibious landings on Omaha Beach, Normandy, France. During this period from 6 June 1944 through 8 May 1945, the 56th Signal Battalion supported combat operations in: France (from 6 June – 6 September 1944,) Belgium (from 9-11 September 1944,) Luxembourg (from 15-23 September 1944,) Belgium (from 4 October 1944 – 26 February 1945,) Germany (from 8 March – 7 May 1945,) and Czechoslovakia (from 8 May until Victory in Europe Day 1945). The 56th Signal Battalion was awarded battle streamers in recognition of participation in combat operations during the Normandy, Northern France, Rhineland, Ardennes-Alsace, and Central Europe campaigns. ( He never lost his ear or his touch for Morse code and he enjoyed telling the story of being on the radio set when the signal came through that Germany had surrendered.

In his travels during this period, he met a young British girl. She was an ambulance driver in the women’s unit of the British Army. Someone else driving ambulances for the British Army was a young lady named Elizabeth. Elizabeth went on to marry a Duke named Phillip and eventually became Queen of England. Though this soldier was not royalty, he was prince of a guy. Immediately and forever the ambulance driver became his queen – for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish ‘til parted by death.

After the wedding, they established their home in the states. He went to work in the town’s company store. They joined the downtown church where she loved working in the nursery. When it became evident they could have no children of their own, they adopted a son and then later on, they adopted a daughter. Like so many other veterans, he joined the local lodge. It seemed to fulfill a need he and so many former soldiers had to continue the sense of comradeship and common purpose they had become accustomed to in war. Eventually, he bought a grocery store in town and together the prince and his queen served their community for decades.

The year I met them, they had been retired for quite some time and her mind was disappearing into the shadows of Alzheimer’s. His frame, once tall and straight, was now stooped from years of work and the weight of care. Still, the love born so long ago as a result of a chance, wartime meeting between these children of separate continents continued to palpably envelope them. It seemed their hearts beat as one.

She had lost all ability to care for herself and was confined to a wheelchair but he never let her forget that she was queen of his heart. Daily, he would see to all of her personal needs. Then he would dress her, not in bedclothes or a simple frock as one might expect considering the circumstances but in a fine dress. He fixed her hair, applied her make-up and tastefully accessorized her outfit. For despite her infirmity and his advancing age, they had an almost daily appointment with the world.

Sometimes that appointment simply consisted of a stroll through the neighborhood. Year round she wore a fashionable hat as an added accessory for these outings. In the cooler parts of the year, a coat covered her outfit but kept her warm.

Other times their appointment might be a date together at a local restaurant. Though she required a wheelchair because she was too weak to walk, he would not allow it to be her permanent throne. When assigned a table by the hostess, he helped her into a chair placed right beside his own and would go to great lengths to make her comfortable.

We have all watched a parent feed a small child – lifting a bite of food from the plate to a waiting mouth, spoon by spoon, until the child is tired of the food or the food is exhausted from the plate. It is a common and natural event. Outside of a hospital or nursing home, we rarely see an adult feeding another adult. Because it is much less common, it is easy to think it unnatural so we tend to avert our eyes out of pity or even disgust.

Something about this couple melted all pity and deflated any disgust. Their manner did not say “patient and nurse” but “loved and lover.” For while his hand provided her food, her eyes sang him a love sonnet and his eyes danced to her music. Words were not exchanged between them but neither were they necessary. Their adoration for one another transcended all of the limits of spoken language.

She died ten years ago. Because the circumstances of their final years seemed so difficult for so long, you might expect him to feel some sense of relief even in the midst of his loss. But, you see, caring for his bride was never a burden. Back during the war they fell in love with one another. They made vows before God to love one another. They lived a long life of love with one another. Being “in love with” another evolved into being “love to” another and the two became one flesh. There was no question the prince would serve his queen.

He visited her gravesite every day until his own health required he leave their “castle” for an assisted living facility. He still got to visit her grave, thanks to their daughter, but it was never often enough for him.

Last week, the soldier rejoined the ambulance driver. The husband is with his wife, the loved is with the lover and the prince now rests with his queen.